3 Law of Attraction Secrets I Gave Up

I have spent the last 10 years healing from trauma. But nothing prepared me for what it took to shift my relationship with money after years & years of trauma.

Actually, I avoided dealing with my relationship with money for a VERY LONG time, even after I healed.

I am an escape artist! If I can avoid it, I'm about it. (This is a coping mechanism.)

All of that changed 2 years ago when my bank account was at negative $196. Yes, I said negative.

Something had to shift. This week, I manifested $3,557.07.

You wanna know something? I didn't do any shifting by using the Law of Attraction (LOA) secrets! 

What I did learn is that trauma was cockblocking me! If you want to see if you have trauma blocks, check out this blog here.

After I realized that trauma was blocking my abundance of windfall, I learned that I had to shift to focusing on safety. 

Feeling safe with my money and the way I handled my money! I realized that I using LOA secrets that were hurting that feeling of safety that I needed to shift.

Here are 3 LOA tricks that I gave up that immediately shifted my relationship with money.

1. Spent money I didn't have. All the gurus & coaches talk about this. They spend money before they have it. What they don't share, is money is consistently coming in for them. They have structures & systems in place that money comes in regardless of what happens. I did not have that set up at the time. So spending money I didn't have was putting me into debt & overdrafiting my account. I didn't realize until I released my trauma that spending money I didn't have wasn't working for me. This felt so unsafe to me, but coaches were swearing by it. But I'm not a fake it til you make it type of gal. So this only got me in more financial trouble. As soon I stopped doing this I felt so much ease. Check out this meditation if you want to feel safe within and reset & rewire your nervous system. It's so powerful! It will help you receive more. 

2. Forcing myself to feel happy or excited. You have to be so excited to manifest a shit town of money- at least, that's what they said. As someone who has spent most of her life numb, forcing myself to feel excited was depleting me. I'm more of a neutral type of vibe. As soon I learned it's about unconditional alignment & not forced emotion, big shifts happened. It's about being true to yourself. So even if you feel angry, feel it. It's actually gonna help you manifest faster rather than stop your abundance, as they claim. Toxic positivity and bypassing hurt your manifestations. 

3. Waiting to be inspired by something.  I was so much flow that nothing was ever really getting done. I would wait for it to feel right. Cuz that's what coaches say gets you into that feminine vibe. & that makes you more money. But it actually hurt me to not have systems, structures & consistency in place.  When I shifted to do no matter what & receive when it was aligned things shifted. You still want to allow yourself to receive & live life. However, you cannot wait for inspiration to make things happen in your life. It's like waiting for motivation to get to the gym. We all know that doesn't happen. You want to have a beautiful blend of both do energy (masculine energy) & receive energy (feminine energy). It's not one over the other. It's both.

Don't get me wrong—I love LOA. But the way some people teach it actually hurts you more than it helps you.

I've learned over & over the fucking hard way!  But you don't have to learn the hard way like I did. 

You don't have to spend money you don't have.

You don't have to force yourself to feel excited.

You don't have to sit around waiting for inspiration.

You can manifest in a way that feels good to you.

You can feel safe while you shift your relationship with money.

As a trauma Healer, that's my goal for you. 

To feel safe & secure to release so that you won't fall back into old habits or patterns.

Cuz when you heal your trauma, you create space for more.

When you heal money trauma, you allow yourself to feel good when you talk about & have money.

If you want to shift your relationship with money, join the money-healing series now.

It's a 7 days series that will change everything! You never have to rely on secrets & tricks to make things happen in your life!

Shift your relationship with money here!